If I'm all "let's go running," you should absolutely come if you want to.
One of the most difficult things for a fat dude to hear, especially when dating, is that they have a great personality but no other redeeming physical characteristics. "I'm just trying to help." Listen, I'm going to share a harsh truth with you here: People know they're fat. I don't know what this platitude is supposed to do, but I can guarantee it's not having the desired effect. "At least you don't have to worry about shopping for clothes." Guess what: Fat dudes like dressing nice too.
I appreciate that, especially if it's just a nice compliment that doesn't come with a "but" after. When you remind us how "unhealthy" we are, all you're doing is reducing us to our weight and that doesn't feel good. If I haven't suggested I might like to go for a 10-mile hike, telling me how much I'd enjoy it every time I see you is a mistake (and also makes me thing you want to get me alone so you can murder me in the wilderness). "You're just big-boned, man." The bones in my butt and stomach are particularly large, yes.
I suppose if I like big girls I can't say that I ever dated one solely because of her personality.
I have never dated a woman to whom I did not feel some level of intense physical attraction.
There are other barriers to liking me, such as my generally grumpy demeanor and inability to balance my checkbook.
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its so nice to actually be attracted to his body, too.
I don't discriminate against anybody, tall, short, thin, fat.
For me physical attraction was always the first hurdle to clear.
If I was attracted to her and it was mutual, then the personalities came into play. As a physically active guy I knew there were some activities I did regularly that my partners would be unable to do eith me.
But were all biologically wired a certain way, and no matter how bad it may look or may not look, it is what it is.